Conservatives: if you have the right to determine what people will and will not do, dont i have the same right?

Yes you have, but first of all there is a process called democracy which you must follow. Form your own political party, publish your manifesto, including the points you raised. Submit you and your party members to the Nation for election. When you and your party are elected and are in Government with a clear majority then you can p all the laws your little heart desires.